I
usually answer that through life-coaching I help people live a better
life and I help them to develop their personality and motivation.
After
that I seldom hear: „Oh... so... you are a psychologist!”
You
couldn't be more wrong! Life-coaching is not a therapy where a shrink
with glasses thicker than the bottom of a bottle asks you about your
childhood.
Life-coaching
is about present moment and about your future. The principal of
coaching is to set achievable goals.
Moreover,
in coaching, your coach is at the same level as you are.
What does it mean?
It means that he is not trying to be smarter than you are, does not give you solutions, does not criticize you, does not laugh at you. Furthermore you are the expert! You have all the solutions in you, and life-coach’s task is to let you discover these answers by yourself.
It means that he is not trying to be smarter than you are, does not give you solutions, does not criticize you, does not laugh at you. Furthermore you are the expert! You have all the solutions in you, and life-coach’s task is to let you discover these answers by yourself.
Unlike
therapy, which can least for months or even years, Life-Coaching
usually least for maximum few months. Life-coaching relationship ends
after about 6 sessions.
During
the session Life-coach helps you recognize what are your strengths,
helps you to overcome problems and limitations and helps you to
prepare an efficient and effective plan to achieve your goals.
How
does that work? Well...it's very simple. Coach makes right questions
and you answer. Sometimes he gives you an exercise and homework, but
don't worry it's not like at school! Life-coaching doesn't hurt and
it can change your life!
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